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The Importance of Men's Work - with Kurt Francom - Episode 236
One of the biggest casualties men experience, often when they are boys, is getting separated from their own hearts and living life on autopilot. Addictions, trauma, abandonment, and other challenges can create more...
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The Four Levels of Communication - with Nathaniel Gustafson - Episode 235
Communication in a marriage or committed relationship isn't always easy, especially in the aftermath of betrayal. We've invited fellow therapist Nathaniel Gustafson to teach us more about the four levels of...
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Transactional vs. Transformational Relationship Dynamics - with Julia Witt - Episode 234
We've invited Julia Witt to join us for a great discussion on transactional versus transformational relationships. Geoff discovered Julia when someone sent him a Tik Tok video of her discussing this topic. He knew he...
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Taking Ownership of Our Stories - with Jason Portnoy - Episode 233
In this episode we are joined by Jason Portnoy, who wrote a memoir called “Silicon Valley Porn Star”. Jason shares his personal journey of addiction, infidelity, and self-discovery. We discuss the importance of...
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Worthiness vs. Trust - Episode 232
In this episode we discuss the topic of rebuilding trust and healing from betrayal. The concepts of 'worthiness' and 'trust' often get confused, and it is extremely important to maintain a clear distinction....
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Healing Rituals in Marriage - with Amanda Christensen, LMFT - Episode 231
When we have injuries, losses, disappointments, betrayals, and other painful things happen in our marriages, healing rituals are a way we can mark that things are different. We use rituals all the time to symbolically...
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Loving at a Distance While Keeping the Flame Alive - with KayLee Dunn - Episode 230
When you're healing from betrayal trauma, it's completely normal to still wonder how to keep the relationship alive. If you're completely done with the relationship, then this video isn't for you. However, if you are...
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Affair-Proofing Your Relationship - with Shannon Brown, LMFT - Episode 229
Most couples never imagine they could find themselves in the crisis of an extramarital affair. The slope is slippery and every couple is at risk for infidelity issues unless they have intentionality and boundaries...
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A Broader Look at Spiritual Intimacy - Episode 228
In this episode we are wrapping up our 4-part series and focusing on spiritual intimacy. Join us as we not only discuss deepening spiritual intimacy when both individuals are on the same page, but as we explore the...
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A Broader Look at Intellectual Intimacy - Episode 227
In this episode we continue the discussion on intimacy, this time focusing on intellectual intimacy. Intellectual intimacy is the sharing of ideas, perspectives, and opinions, possibly challenging others’ beliefs,...
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A Broader Look at Emotional Intimacy - Episode 226
In today’s episode we continue the discussion on intimacy, this time focusing on emotional intimacy. Sharing your deepest thoughts, feelings, and fears requires safety and vulnerability. Join us as we discuss the...
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A Broader Look at Physical Intimacy - Episode 225
When the term “physical intimacy” is used, do you immediately assume that sexual contact is being inferred? In this episode we discuss the importance of healthy physical intimacy in a relationship and why that doesn’t...
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