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Improving Your Apologies - Episode 210
Apologizing can be as simple as an “I'm sorry” all the way to working through deeply complex injuries that leave both people feeling exposed and vulnerable. In this episode we discuss the basics of a strong apology...
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Four Phases of Healing After Sexual Betrayal - with Tammy Gustafson - Episode 209
Betrayed partners often have difficulty knowing where they're at in the healing process. After the chaos of discovery and early recovery, the rest can seem like a blur. My guest is Tammy Gustafson, therapist, coach,...
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A Better Way to Approach Sexual Brokenness in Our Churches - Episode 208
Although church is a place for imperfect people to go to become better, sometimes we find it hard to be accepted there through our own trials and imperfections, especially in the case of sexual brokenness. Today...
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Relearning Touch After Betrayal (Part 2) - with Wendy Maltz - Episode 207
Today we conclude our conversation with internationally recognized sex therapist, Wendy Maltz. She continues to discuss the steps that couples can take to relearn touch after betrayal. In this episode we cover:
How...
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Relearning Touch After Betrayal - with Wendy Maltz (Part 1) - Episode 206
Intimacy is a vital part of a relationship, and one that takes time and effort to create. After the betrayal of pornography addiction, the steps to healing and regaining that intimacy can be confusing and difficult to...
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Sitting with Discomfort - Episode 205
In an age of instant gratification and constant activity, we are left with little time to be bored or disconnected from stimulation. It is becoming increasingly challenging to sit with discomfort of any kind -...
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The Power of No - Episode 204
Do you have a hard time saying “no” and holding personal boundaries around your time, energy and resources? We often find ourselves socially conditioned to be agreeable, helpful, and willing to say “yes” at just about...
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In Search of Heroic Masculinity - Ben Pacini - Episode 203
Masculinity has become a taboo topic in recent years, often being associated with sexism and misogyny. In this episode Ben Pacini, author of “The Case for Heroic Masculinity” and professor at BYU-Idaho, joins us to...
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4 Ways the Betrayed Can Improve Their Healing - Episode 202
During my years working with couples dealing with addiction and betrayal, I’ve seen several key trends that have led to the most healing and recovery for the partner who has been betrayed. In this episode we discuss...
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4 Ways the Betrayer Can Improve Their Recovery - Episode 201
During my years working with couples dealing with addiction and betrayal, I’ve seen several key trends that have led to the most successful recoveries for those who have betrayed their partner. In this episode we...
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Is My Partner an Addict or Just Being a Jerk? - Episode 200
Working through betrayal trauma brings up a lot of unknowns in a relationship. One of the most common questions is if the betrayer has the capacity and the willingness to change, or if they are tied to a compulsive or...
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Shame vs. Regret - Episode 199
There is a fine line between words that empower change and words that drag us down and keep us stuck in a hamster wheel of unhealthy patterns. In this episode we discuss the importance of differentiating between shame...
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