You don’t have to stay stuck in mistrust, doubt, and fear. The Courageous Together™ Program gives you the tools to rebuild trust, create safety, and restore connection—step by step.
Start your healing journey today.
Finally, a Clear Path to Healing After Betrayal
A step-by-step guided program to restore safety, rebuild trust, and feel connected
"Thank you. Thank you for sharing your betrayal informed knowledge and making a program that walks along side both parties, as well as the relationship. In just these few levels and lessons there has been a great shift in the way my husband and I interact. I have hope that completing the whole course will create a beautiful marriage and personal growth that I no longer thought was possible."
- Courageous Together Member
Worried your relationship will never be the same after betrayal?
- Do you fear getting hurt again, even as progress is being made?
- Are you contemplating if you’ll ever feel relaxed in your relationship?
- Wondering if your partner truly understands your pain?
- Are you stuck in cycles of defensiveness or avoidance, unable to have productive conversations about the past or the future?
- Do you long for peace and emotional safety after years of dishonesty and betrayal?
- Are you feeling disconnected as a couple, unable to bridge the distance created by betrayal?
- Do you fear that intimacy is forever out of reach, blocked by fear, mistrust, and unresolved pain?
Sound familiar? You're not alone. But there's hope.
Imagine This…
- Waking up and not bracing yourself for constant uncertainty.
- The trust you’ve rebuilt feels steady, earned through the hard work you’ve both done— individually and together.
- You’ve faced the pain, put in the effort, and shaped a new kind of relationship, one that feels honest, secure, and true.
- The partner who broke the trust has become consistent—showing honesty, accountability, and courage in ways that rebuild safety.
- The betrayed partner notices the changes, feels the difference, and begins to risk trusting again.
- Moments that used to feel tense and uncertain now feel calmer and more reassuring.
- You’re no longer weighed down by the fear of what might happen next.
- You’re building something solid, shaped by honesty, humility, and hope for the future.
- As safety and trust grows, the relationship is healing…for real this time. It’s safer to take emotional risks, to be vulnerable, and to connect deeply.
This is what’s possible.
"I am stunned at the progress we have made in spite of the current challenges. I feel more at peace than I have for 40 years. I am beginning to trust myself again, finally. Huge debt of gratitude here. Thank you!"
“I am so appreciative for what this course is doing for us. My wife tells me she is feeling closer to me than she has in years."
- Courageous Together Members
Courageous Together™ is a program for couples who feel stuck and lost in the messiness of betrayal and want a clear roadmap on what to do next — individually and together — so they can finally relax and feel safe in their relationship again.
A Proven Path to Healing
An all-inclusive program with specialized support for each individual and the relationship.
The partner who
broke trust
The betrayed partner
The relationship
The Courageous Together™ Program gives you a clear vision of where you're headed as an individual and as a couple following a step-by-step roadmap to get there.
Here's How It Works
A comprehensive, step-by-step healing journey
Navigate a dynamic, adaptive program inside of a custom app that evolves based on participants' needs. Follow a clear path forward on my unique "Healing Map," guiding both individual and relationship recoveries.
Personalized lessons for each partner
Engage with video lessons and exercises tailored for each partner and the couple to promote healing and growth at every stage of your journey.
Live group coaching calls
Join live group coaching calls specifically for each partner and the couple. Get direct support from me, ask questions, and address urgent situations in a private and anonymous group setting, without waiting for appointments.
Private online communities
Connect in secure, password-protected discussion groups for each partner and the couple. Share resources, get support, and interact with me and other participants in a positive, encouraging environment.
Specialized support
Benefit from my 25+ years of professional clinical experience guiding couples healing from betrayal. Engage with resources that go beyond information, focusing on implementation to help you get real results in your recovery journey, together.
In the aftermath of betrayal, couples often fall into one of these traps:
- Doing nothing, hoping time will heal all wounds
- Focusing only on individual recovery, neglecting the relationship
- Jumping into couples therapy too soon, causing further trauma
Thankfully, you’ve got a more effective option with the Courageous Together™ Program.
How Courageous Together™ can help
both of you
Find Hope and Direction
Replace confusion and uncertainty with a clear, trauma-informed roadmap that guides you every step of the way in the healing process.
Rebuild Trust
Learn actionable steps to rebuild confidence and feel safe again so you’re not constantly worried, “Will this happen again?”
Navigate Triggers and Pain
Understand how to work through the tough emotions and triggers that come up during recovery—both on your own and together as a couple.
Find a Consistent Way Forward
Get the tools you need to handle the emotional ups and downs, face challenges with confidence, and stay on track towards healing.
Heal From Betrayal Without Ending Your Marriage
Replace survival mode with growth, clarity, and mutual understanding, setting your relationship on a path toward long-term health and thriving.
Strengthen Your Relationship
Transform your relationship into one that is not just repaired but thriving, with deeper trust, connection, and intimacy than before.
Heal Together
Even if you're not sure about your relationship right now, you can learn how to be on the same team during recovery so you can feel like you’re working together to heal.
Your Complete Roadmap to Relationship Healing
This isn’t just another collection of videos or worksheets. It’s a comprehensive, step-by-step guide designed specifically for couples healing from betrayal. The program is structured to walk you through the entire journey of recovery—from the initial shock and pain to building a relationship based on trust, safety, and connection.
Here’s How It’s Done Inside Courageous Together:
1. A Roadmap for Both Partners
You’ll each have clear steps tailored to your unique roles in the recovery process. Whether you’re the betrayed partner working to process pain and rebuild trust, or the partner who broke trust learning to take accountability and provide safety, you’ll know exactly what to focus on at each stage.
2.Three Tailored Programs, One Powerful Community:
Get customized lessons, dedicated group coaching calls, separate discussion forums, and specialized support designed specifically for the partner who broke the trust, the betrayed partner, and the couple—each with resources to meet their unique needs
3. Trauma-Informed and Attachment-Based Strategies
Healing from betrayal requires more than surface-level fixes. This program is rooted in trauma-sensitive practices and attachment-based principles to help you rebuild the emotional bond that betrayal has disrupted. You’ll learn how to foster safety, deepen connection, and restore a secure foundation for your relationship.
4. Individual and Couples Support
You’ll learn how to heal individually while creating space for the relationship to recover. It’s not just about fixing the relationship; it’s about becoming stronger and healthier as individuals so the relationship can thrive.
5. Practical Skills for Real Change
From rebuilding trust to fostering open, honest communication, you’ll gain actionable tools to break out of harmful patterns. This includes strategies to rebuild intimacy, repair emotional connection, and navigate difficult conversations with confidence.
6. Direct Access to Geoff Steurer and a Secure Community
You won’t be navigating this journey alone. The program includes opportunities to connect with me directly for guidance and support. You’ll also have access to a secure, private community where you can learn from and share with others who are walking the same path—offering a safe and encouraging environment for growth and healing.
7. Guidance from an Experienced Expert
With over 25 years of clinical experience helping couples recover from betrayal, I’ve designed this program to address the real-life struggles you’re facing. It’s not theoretical—it’s practical, compassionate, and rooted in what truly works.
What Our Members Are Saying
These testimonials are shared anonymously to honor each person's private journey.
“I hope I don’t make your head swell, but your style, care, and compassion for us sinners goes a long way for me. You don’t coddle us but you don’t seem to judge us. The shame and guilt I feel for destroying my good wife and our marriage is overwhelming…I know I was in the wrong and it’s refreshing to be seen as a human.”
“Thank you for such a wonderful resource! Had something like this been available 20 years ago, it may have saved us years of heartache and pain…but we’re grateful to have it now and be rebuilding our relationship.”
“It helps me understand my role in all of this, both how I caused it and what I can do to help my wife heal.”
“I like the direct feedback and support. I love that you have a step-by-step plan for us and share that plan with us. I also love that I can rewatch videos and ask questions that you will actually answer.”
“It helps show my wife I’m interested in recovery and gives us something to work on together.”
“Tremendous! We are learning to get through trigger moments and days without immediately going to ‘separation’ worlds.”
“The content of the videos and worksheets is great, I get something from every one of them.”
“The calls are very helpful for me because I feel like I’m not alone as I listen to the struggles of others and your answers.”
“While there is a lot of work to do, healing is possible and there is help and support available.”
“I think it has added a feeling of collaboration to the work we are doing. There is a feeling of accomplishment I think we both get in getting through the levels, as opposed to therapy sessions where there is less of a way to get a feel for ‘where we are’ in this process. I think both my wife and I feel this way.”
“I love the way everything is mapped out and easy to see. Having the next lesson ready on the home page is super helpful. The additional resources at the end of each lesson have been very helpful and I especially love when there is a specific podcast episode linked for a more in-depth look at specific topics.”
“Learning so much about myself and my husband, we are learning to talk, and getting better at handling the triggers.”
“It gives structure to the process of recovery. Having access to resources to help me recognize what I am experiencing and feeling is very helpful.”
“We’ve both really enjoyed the content and having specific things to be working on.”
“It has reawakened a sense of our need for improvement. Though we aren’t far into the program, just the small shift in focus has made me feel safer and less worried about my husband’s actions or the future of our relationship.”
“I really like the format and when you answer our questions live.”
“We have fought more, but also I am not pushing my feelings down. Our fights have escalated, but my husband is recognizing what he is doing when we fight, and talking about it with me, and things are usually better after, as I am realizing what I am doing and he is also. We see the lessons working.”
“It has given me focus, direction and a plan.”
“It's been a positive movement forward. I'd say in some ways our interactions are...not strained...but different where I feel like I'm re-learning how she needs to be treated. Learned a lot about my lack of proper understanding.”
“The lessons, the videos, having our questions addressed in our meetings feels personal, and very educational.”
“I appreciate the ability to go at our own pace and the convenience of being able to watch and learn whenever and wherever time allows.”
“I love the Q&A’s!”
“I think that I am moving forward. Turning away from past behaviors and implementing new thoughts and actions.”
How It’s Different
Customized for Betrayal Recovery
Unlike generic marriage enrichment programs, this one is built specifically for the unique pain and complexity of betrayal, with tools to address the trauma and rebuild trust.
Attachment-Based Healing
This program focuses on rebuilding the secure bond between you and your partner, helping you move from disconnection and fear to connection and safety.
A Focus on Actionable Progress
Healing isn’t just about feeling better—it’s about doing better. This program emphasizes consistent actions that lead to real change.
Both Partners Are Supported
Each partner has their own path within the program, ensuring the betrayed partner feels seen and supported while the partner who broke trust learns how to show up in healing ways.
Safe to Go at Your Own Pace
Recovery takes time, and this program is designed to meet you where you are. You’ll have the guidance to move forward without rushing or skipping essential steps.
Community and Connection
With opportunities to connect with me and others in a secure, private setting, you’ll feel supported and understood as you navigate this journey together.
This isn’t just a program—it’s a guide to transforming your relationship into something stronger, healthier, and more connected than ever before.
Don't Let Betrayal Define Your Future
Too much is at stake.
Most relationships can be saved with the right kind of help.
The Courageous Together™ program is your lifeline.
An environment where you'll find answers, guidance, support, and hope as you navigate the challenges of restoring trust and healing from betrayal.
Let Me Introduce Myself
With over 25 years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, I’ve dedicated my career to helping couples and individuals navigate the profound pain of betrayal and rebuild trust, safety, and connection. My approach is compassionate, grounded, and deeply rooted in the science of understanding what it takes to heal both individually and as a couple.
About Me
I’m the co-author of Love You, Hate the Pørn: Healing a Relationship Damaged by Virtual Infidelity and the co-host of the podcast From Crisis to Connection, which I host with my wife, Jody. Over the years, I’ve developed workbooks, audio programs, and courses to support individuals and couples healing from sexual betrayal, unwanted pørnography use, partner betrayal trauma, and broken trust.
I earned my undergraduate and graduate degrees from Brigham Young University and Auburn University and have received extensive training in treating sexually compulsive behaviors and betrayal trauma. I’m a clinical candidate in the APSATS Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model, received advanced training in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), and I’m master certified in Accelerated Resolution Trauma Therapy (ART).
As a leader in the field, I am a frequent contributor on these subjects at national conferences, documentaries, blogs, magazines, and podcasts. I also write a weekly relationship advice column available on my blog.
I founded and directed an outpatient couples recovery group program that treated problematic sexual behavior and betrayal trauma for 15 years, co-founded and chaired a local conference to educate community members about harmful media, and founded and administered a specialized group therapy practice for over 10 years.
I currently maintain a private counseling and coaching practice in beautiful Southern Utah. I've been married since 1996 to my wife, Jody, and we are the parents of four children.
More testimonials:
These testimonials are shared anonymously to honor each person's private journey.
“Seriously so good. I am so grateful to have found your teachings. It’s been a light in the dark and I have some hope that things can change!”
“I am proud to say I just completed 22 months sober. It feels absolutely incredible. Thank you so much for all your help. Your program was a key piece of my recovery.”
“Your program has provided many insights and actions that I had never realized were so important. I have learned so much and changed so much of myself personally. Your guidance has helped immensely. I am now able to sense and feel my wife’s pain, fear, and the damage that I’ve caused. Again, thank you so much.”
“Definitely had ‘aha’ moments. I have been praying for an answer to my prayer on this subject. This helped me so much. Thank you for helping me feel like I have a voice. I feel like my husband understands me better now. We have a long way to go, but I’m hoping this can help heal us!”
“I can’t think of a single criticism. Well done and very helpful, thank you!”
“I learned a lot about myself and some of why I think and see things as I do. The focus on making me a better person, more self-aware, and more sensitive is an ongoing learning experience. Calming, engaging, and challenging - just what I needed.”
“I eventually learned to become more empathetic and understanding of my wife’s feelings. It was still difficult to deal with at times, but, after all I’ve done, we are no longer talking about divorce or separation.”
“It spoke closely to my situation, and my wife resonated with the program. I had been in therapy for 3 years and this was far more helpful.”
“This is a lifeline to a very wounded heart. You have a very gentle way about you, and I ate up the information. I am validated. I am supported. What a beautiful gift you are giving men who don’t know and women who have been trying to tell them, but it was too hard to hear from her.”
“I’ve been married for 16 years and have had a secret life for 14 of them. I’ve read many books and participated in many programs. This is the ONLY program that has worked for me and my spouse, as well as the book you co-wrote, ‘Love You, Hate the Pørn’. Between those two things, I finally have real hope. All words are completely inadequate to capture how life-saving this has been and how much gratitude I feel toward you, Geoff. All I can say is thank you.”
“Your program is AWESOME! We’ve never bought an online course that has helped as much as yours.”
“It was worth every bit of the cost to me. I am grateful for the spirit in which it was taught.”
“I am so appreciative for what this course is doing for us. My wife tells me she is feeling closer to me than she has in years.”
“I like how straightforward and honest you are about each topic. It was no added fluff and it was to the point.”
How I Can Help You
Specialized Expertise in Betrayal Trauma Recovery
I’ve spent my career working with individuals and couples facing the profound challenges of betrayal and trust repair. This is my life’s work, and I bring deep experience and focus to every client I work with.
Attachment-Based and Trauma-Informed
My approach is rooted in attachment theory and trauma-informed care, helping you rebuild safety and emotional connection as the foundation for lasting healing.
Empathetic and Practical
I balance deep empathy with actionable tools and guidance. My goal is to help you feel seen and supported while giving you practical strategies to make real progress.
Collaborative and Accessible
Healing is a partnership, and I meet you where you are. Whether you’re just starting or further along in your journey, I guide you at a pace that fits your needs.
Why Clients Choose Me
Clients tell me they feel heard, understood, and safe in our work together. They appreciate my ability to bring warmth, clarity, directness, and hope to situations that often feel overwhelming. I have a gift for simplifying the complex.
My Mission
I’m passionate about helping couples move beyond the chaos and pain of betrayal to build relationships that are secure and joyful. If you’re ready to take courageous steps toward healing, I’m here to guide you.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I participate in the program if I'm single, separated, or divorced?
What are your background and credentials?
When can I expect results?
Is this a couples or individual program?
Can my relationship really bounce back from a betrayal?
How long is the program?
Do we each pay for the program separately?
What's the refund policy?
How do I get personalized support?
Who leads the coaching calls and forum?
How is this program different from therapy?
Is this program for couples in a certain stage of recovery?
Will this work for me if my partner isn’t committed?
How is accountability handled in the program?
I'm a private person. This is scary to me.
Will I get personalized attention in the Courageous Together program, or will it be too crowded?
What happens after the six-month program ends? Will I still have access to support?
Are You Ready To Heal?
Reclaiming Your Peace – FREE WEBINAR
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